Its real easy, though Ive personally never had a problem letting fear stop me from a fight, Ive had a couple friends that did have that problem. And I always had to fight for them, luckily I had an older brother who used me as a grappling dummy and sparring partner when he would buy close quarters combat books, so I learned to fight and learned how to take a hit pretty damn quickly. One day it just came to me when I was sitting around with my friends, they were trying to get me to show them how to defend themselves, I was really joking around when I said it, but finally I said "why dont the two of you just wrestle around and see what happens, anything goes and I'll break it up if it gets out of hand." Well they did, and just like two guys wrestling around, dominance has to be gotten and both wanted it.
Finally after a little while of waiting for any real action, and alot of instigations from me, they actually started beating the piss out of each other. It was really funny to watch, but when all was said and done, they werent afraid of getting hit, well not enough to stop them from fighting, and they finally started standing up for themselves.
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