how do you lose fear to bullies & fighting?

[killquick454]

I'm thinking this is made up or highly exagerated.
So he punched and missed, then you broke his arm.
How did you break it?
How did you break the others leg?
Why did no security guards stop the fight?

most of those i should have explained

how you break the arm- if you put the extended arm near your waist almost like a head lock then you just put your foot infront of theirs and pull them forward by the arm (do it fast enough and they should fall right to the ground) now they are laying face first with their arm extended slightly behind them (sometimes the shoulder gives out at the falling point if you just elbow down at their elbow joint it should just snap right back

how i broke the leg - i'll admit it VERY BIG ROCK

why the fight wasn't stopped- my schools security was such a joke they acually placed bets on the fights[/quote]

[Steve_TPF]

Security placed bets on the fight, didn't stop it, and you didn't get charged after you broke someone's leg with a rock?

I rarely use capitals so please pay attention.



BULL.... SHIT!!!

[toxic123]

never give up and never surrender man also who says you have to play fair kick them in the nutz and use some rocks as clubs

[alpha1defective]

READ THIS! i know most people dont read these if theyre over 2 lines long but this is useful.

If these guys are bullies at school than i wouldnt advise a weapon, unless they are using one. And to be honest even if they had one its smarter to run than make your own.

If they are unarmed and you just want to stand your ground, like numerous others have suggested, try boxing, it can be vicious and theres not as much depending on it. Friends on the otherhand will always hold back. Do not use a weapon, you can get in too much shit and its cowardly.

The key is to forget all your natural instincts for self preservation and just dive on them without warning and always go for the biggest one first, if you take him out them the others get scarred and bolt. After youve done it once they wont try again. if anything theyll try to be your friend (weird i know, but its how cowards think)

most importantly never give up, if they are kicking the shit out of you, you have to keep fighting no matter what. If they still win then they wont try it again because there not going to pick on a guy that fights back hard when they could knock around somone else

[skypiedie]

don't ever be afraid of 2 on 1 there are loads of ways to beat them
But what personally worked for me at school is scars you see i had exma
on my hands and when it healed i was left with scars on my knuckles this combined with being well built makes people think that i am tough

[The Guru]

Originally Posted by snipeshow

Another easy and quick quick way would be to go into boxing for about a month and they show you how to take hits and throw some nice combos and soon enough you will be able to take all those bullies.

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I just want to say that boxing and fighting are totaly different

I mean they have the same consept but the difference is the padding. when you get poped in the face with a glove, eh shake it off not so bad, Now getting nailed with an open fist to the jaw line, Your done

Kid all i have to say is ask your friend to punch you in the face. Hook to be more specific after you learn that it doesnt feal that bad then you wont be scared any more, Unless the punch knocks you out in this case itl totaly backfire, Hey it worked fro me, But i didnt lay on the ground unconsious( I fuckin hate spelling) But forget the wepon thing that just makes you look like a pussy(no offence) but still. If you run into this situation again say wth ill fight you, but one at a time. They will think of you differently next time. To them you'll have a spine. : )

[The Guru]

Just to throw in. This works pretty well for me. If you see those "bullies" comming and you just so happen to have an energy drink, Down it. After that you dont feal the blunt force to your brain.(the punches) and the adrenalin helps as well

[7gh0st7]

look kid, I'm a martial artist, I'm belted in several different styles( Hapkido, Chin Na, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Ninjitsu, Jujitsu, and just plain old Boxing). I can make a deadly poison out of cow shit, but thats beside the point. Listen up, the VERY best thing you can possibly do in a situation like this, honestly, is fight. yeah, you could very well get the shit kicked out of you. Which is what inspired me to fight in the first place. The very first fight i ever got into, i remember it like it was yesterday. it was after a baseball game, we were all getting ice cream at the local dairy bar. Some idiot kid was running around kicking everyone in the shins and shit. He even jumped up and kicked someone in the chest, with his baseball cleats on, mind you. he rounded the corner of the building and kicked me in the knee as he ran by. I fell backwards and he jumped on top of me, tryin to land with his feet on my face. I was only like 9 or 10 years old ad the time, but idk what the hell happened, next thing i know im up off the ground, and i have him by the front of his shirt. I slam him into the building, swing him around and he falls to the ground, from which i execute ground and pound skills. I sure pissed in that kids cheerios that day. Anyway, point to this whole rant. don't let anyone fuck with you, and unless they have a weapon, dont use one. all it is, is an excuse for them to throw you in jail. if you can get one on the ground, just fucking smash his face in, and trust me, they wont fuck with you anymore. I doubt anyone will.

[7gh0st7]

Also, to add to what alpha1defective said, you may likely become friends after the fight, or a few days thereafter. I've done it several times, from fights that i've won and lost.

[The Guru]

Originally Posted by 7gh0st7

look kid, I'm a martial artist, I'm belted in several different styles( Hapkido, Chin Na, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Ninjitsu, Jujitsu, and just plain old Boxing). I can make a deadly poison out of cow shit, but thats beside the point. Listen up, the VERY best thing you can possibly do in a situation like this, honestly, is fight. yeah, you could very well get the shit kicked out of you. Which is what inspired me to fight in the first place. The very first fight i ever got into, i remember it like it was yesterday. it was after a baseball game, we were all getting ice cream at the local dairy bar. Some idiot kid was running around kicking everyone in the shins and shit. He even jumped up and kicked someone in the chest, with his baseball cleats on, mind you. he rounded the corner of the building and kicked me in the knee as he ran by. I fell backwards and he jumped on top of me, tryin to land with his feet on my face. I was only like 9 or 10 years old ad the time, but idk what the hell happened, next thing i know im up off the ground, and i have him by the front of his shirt. I slam him into the building, swing him around and he falls to the ground, from which i execute ground and pound skills. I sure pissed in that kids cheerios that day. Anyway, point to this whole rant. don't let anyone fuck with you, and unless they have a weapon, dont use one. all it is, is an excuse for them to throw you in jail. if you can get one on the ground, just fucking smash his face in, and trust me, they wont fuck with you anymore. I doubt anyone will.

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How long did it take you to get belted in all those styles, did you learn some and quit, or did you master them all, cause the way that you talk makes you sound like you hit it and quit it.

And why does every one consider Boxing to be a martial arts style

[7gh0st7]

No, lol, it took me about 12 years to get all my belts, the reason why i switched so much was because:

1. The dojo i attended stopped teaching a class
-or-
2. I was attending multiple styles at one time.

Fighting is my life. plain and simple. But by the way, I don' have black belts in anything, nearly did. but when i was like 17 we moved =(

and this is why boxing is a martial art.

pu·gi·lism (pyj-lzm)
n.
The skill, practice, and sport of fighting with the fists; boxing.



define:Martial Arts
Fighting with skills derived from training their bodies.

[General Grim]

Originally Posted by 7gh0st7

No, lol, it took me about 12 years to get all my belts, the reason why i switched so much was because:

1. The dojo i attended stopped teaching a class
-or-
2. I was attending multiple styles at one time.

Fighting is my life. plain and simple. But by the way, I don' have black belts in anything, nearly did. but when i was like 17 we moved =(

and this is why boxing is a martial art.

pu·gi·lism (pyj-lzm)
n.
The skill, practice, and sport of fighting with the fists; boxing.



define:Martial Arts
Fighting with skills derived from training their bodies.

Well, cross training in so many styles will just cause conflict in terms of moves, doing a martial art for short periods of time will be useless as it isn't long enough to develop muscle memory- that along with needing to reverse some aspects of your muscle memory by learning new techniques. All in all, even if you did learn that many styles you're not good at them.

And boxing isn't a martial art style, it's a sport.

[The Guru]

Thank you grim, But i do hafta disagree with you on the multiple classes at the same time. I to am a devote martial artist, and i have done many styles at the same time, and i was like the best in all my classes (now i dont mean like the best, but like in the top 10), now ive kept to one form, but still you can do more then one style at a time and still be good at it

Btw: I do Shoa lin Kung Fu mix with Hungar (and a dash of street fighting, but that parts just for me : ) )

[7gh0st7]

Grim, have you ever done a martial art in your life? Martial arts is all about adaptation, you live, you learn, you mix-n-match. It's not always about being the best in one style, and theres always going to be a style to counter yours. Have you ever heard of MMA? yes, thats right, mixed martial arts. The best and brightest of the Martial Arts community. go tell Chuck Liddell, Tito Ortiz, Randy Couture that they suck because they know more than one style of martial arts.


And as for the bit about boxing being a sport, not a martial art. MARTIAL ARTS ARE SPORTS. Thats like saying that Karate isn't a sport because its a martial art. there is no difference

[The Guru]

I still would debate that boxing isnt a martial art, because i dont think it was intended to be so. I believe that it was created as a sport, and shoulded be considerd a martial art.

And since when is Karate a sport, did mix and match with sports day happen and i missed it again??????????

[General Grim]

Originally Posted by Wikipedia

Martial arts are systems of codified practices and traditions of training for combat. While they may be studied for various reasons, martial arts share a single objective: to defeat a person physically or to defend oneself from physical threat

Originally Posted by Wikipedia

A combat sport (also known as a combative sport) is a competitive contact sport where two combatants fight against each other using certain rules of engagement, typically with the aim of simulating parts of real hand to hand combat. Boxing, amateur wrestling, puroresu, mixed martial arts and fencing are examples of combat sports.

Note the words "combat" and "combat sport". Of course boxing can be used as self-defence but so can rugby (spear tackles, grapple tackles).

Also, you completely missed my point, I said that cross training in so many styles will not be beneficial to the martial artist in a short period of time, you've been learning in various styles that don't even complement each other: Two completely different ends of the spectrum (kung fu and muay thai) will never be able to go hand in hand.

Secondly, the MMA fighters you listed cross train extensively in complementary styles, so of course they will develop muscle memory to use both sets of techniques correctly.

How many successful MMA fighters train extensively in 7 different fighting styles?

[7gh0st7]

Did I mention anything in my post about me cross-training in all those different styles at once? I did all those over a large expanse of time. And whether a style is complimentary to another style or not, you will ALWAYS find a situation to use one style over another. again, as posted in my previous post, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A STYLE TO COUNTER YOURS. Accordingly, you should always have a style to counter theirs.

[General Grim]

Firstly, I don't even agree with that statement about one style being better than another, but again you're missing the point. I'll say it again: Training in various styles means that you'll develop muscle memory for a particular set of moves, you cannot expect to switch from a kung fu practictioner to a boxer as you see fit during a real life conflict.

[7gh0st7]

crazier things have happened

[Bahr]

Originally Posted by Paranoid Ecstasy

I'm thinking this is made up or highly exagerated.
So he punched and missed, then you broke his arm.
How did you break it?
How did you break the others leg?
Why did no security guards stop the fight?

I'm not calling you a straight out liar, but this seems a little to improbable.

I am calling you a straight out liar. aint no way that happened with out you being in some serious trouble. I could maybe possibly kinda believe that you did win a two on one.