how do you lose fear to bullies & fighting?

[obertojerky]

drugs =]
jk
seriously though, carry a knife. dont use it, just make sure your in an ally or something, and pull it on them. turn around and teh power is in your hand.
then just go where the adreneline takes you

[Steve_TPF]

Which will likely be jail, following the weapon and assault charges.

[Trench Coat Crow]

my god people listen you have to know how to fight man. anger is only a factor, strength is only a factor, and so is speed. i say learn boxing and kick boxing. those people on UFC thats all they do some martial arts, kicking boxing, and boxing all in together. just learn for a few months avoid them till your confident enough. also fight your friend in a real fight because confidence can be misleading.dont use a weapon like some scum bags do in a fist fight. if you take them down it could things for a reputation. jsut learn kick boxing and boxing for some months, hey you should have thought of this in advanced. i started this shit when i was in 5th grade and im not too bad myself now. but youll get there faster than me because youll have the motivation i dont have. i took shit because i never wanted to get kicked out of boxing and kick boxing but i did it and now i have to learn at a different gym. so yeah learn with a friend itll be much more fun, keep you sights on kicking their asses for motivation, and if you have the money go to a gym for some muscle or bench press or if you dont have the money do push ups. i recommend 2 sets of 20, 2 sets of 18, 2 sets of 16, 2 sets of 14, 2 sets of 12, and keep going down by 2 and do this every night. this isnt that hard of a work out its pretty easy for alot of lean strong people but if your not that strong do this in addition to training up on the stuff i told you to learn how to do. trust me martial arts take way to long and is more focused on speed than strength. kick boxing and boxing is focused on both and on defense. they dont even teach you that many offensive moves in martial arts. so yeah do what i told you for about 6 months and youll be on your way to kicking the bullies ass. its a long and slow road but once your there trust me youll be glad you did. plus once your there dont use it on people on unless you have the following reasons : they hit you family. they hit your friends, they hit you! my dad kicked my ass when i started a fight. i mean like he punched me i had a concussion and my face was messed up. be prepared to get hurt but try not to expect it or itll hurt more. i dont know why its mentally that way. if it happens and you dont expect it, it will hurt alot less. good luck hope this helps....do what i effin told you to do god dammit!

[Steve_TPF]

It's a shame you didn't spend as much time working on your english as you (apparently) did on your martial arts.

A sentence begins with a capital letter and ends with a period. (Also known as a full-stop.) Paragraph breaks are also helpful.
Start using proper grammar or be ridiculed on this site.

Originally Posted by Trench Coat Crow

do what i effin told you to do god dammit!

Given your inability to express yourself clearly there is no reason why anyone should listen.

[D00M]

Oh one thing about the guy that broke multiple bones in one fight and somehow managed to avoid all criminal charges.

A know a guy that punched another guy in the face and broke his nose. He wasn't charged with anything, but the police talked to him and warned him that if anything like that happened again he would be charged. Also, someone called the police over a broken nose. You're talking about a broken arm and leg, and not even teachers thought about contacting the police. What would the two victims parents say. "Oh well it's only a broken arm/leg, I'm not going to figure out what happened."

Jesus man don't post utter bullshit!

Also, contrary to seemingly popular belief, you can't just go assault someone with a weapon or fists and expect to walk away with no questions asked. I know in movies the good guy beats the bullies down with knives and what not, and live happily ever after. If you do this, you'll have some nice charges laid against you. Your best bet would be not to even attempt to fight them and only fight back in self defense, and if possible, run at the best chance you get. Don't go looking for a fight with them.

Also for Trench Coat,
Steve's right. I give you a 10/10. How is someone supposed to read that? Also, you expect someone to be able to do 200+ push-ups per night and you say that's easy? Your triceps would be on fire after probably 50 at max starting off. Even if someone could do 200+ for one night, to turn around and do that every night for an extended period of time? I'm saying that is border line impossible. Well maybe not, but if you're doing them properly, back straight, eyes looking forward and chest touching the ground on every push up, there is no hope in hell of you doing 200+ push ups per night. Why does everyone enjoy exaggeration things so much?

[Steve_TPF]

Actually I do 170 pushups (one set), every second night. It took months to work up to that though.

After a point pushups don't make you stronger because the resistance (your weight) remains the same. I'm going to work up to 200 - then try to do them faster.

Originally Posted by DOOM

Also, contrary to seemingly popular belief, you can't just go assault someone with a weapon or fists and expect to walk away with no questions asked. I know in movies the good guy beats the bullies down with knives and what not, and live happily ever after. If you do this, you'll have some nice charges laid against you.

Most probably. The loser of a fight will usually complain - even if he started it. If he has the most injuries it's easier for him to claim you were the aggressor. It's something the rest of you should remember before you advocate breaking bones, noses etc.

[Trench Coat Crow]

Originally Posted by D00M

Oh one thing about the guy that broke multiple bones in one fight and somehow managed to avoid all criminal charges.

A know a guy that punched another guy in the face and broke his nose. He wasn't charged with anything, but the police talked to him and warned him that if anything like that happened again he would be charged. Also, someone called the police over a broken nose. You're talking about a broken arm and leg, and not even teachers thought about contacting the police. What would the two victims parents say. "Oh well it's only a broken arm/leg, I'm not going to figure out what happened."

Jesus man don't post utter bullshit!

Also, contrary to seemingly popular belief, you can't just go assault someone with a weapon or fists and expect to walk away with no questions asked. I know in movies the good guy beats the bullies down with knives and what not, and live happily ever after. If you do this, you'll have some nice charges laid against you. Your best bet would be not to even attempt to fight them and only fight back in self defense, and if possible, run at the best chance you get. Don't go looking for a fight with them.

Also for Trench Coat,
Steve's right. I give you a 10/10. How is someone supposed to read that? Also, you expect someone to be able to do 200+ push-ups per night and you say that's easy? Your triceps would be on fire after probably 50 at max starting off. Even if someone could do 200+ for one night, to turn around and do that every night for an extended period of time? I'm saying that is border line impossible. Well maybe not, but if you're doing them properly, back straight, eyes looking forward and chest touching the ground on every push up, there is no hope in hell of you doing 200+ push ups per night. Why does everyone enjoy exaggeration things so much?

dude your obviously not very strong... get into an athletics program or something, i said sets of push ups. you take a break between sets like 20 secs. i cant do 200 non stop push ups. your take a break in between so its not that hard and you dont get jelly arm. try this once in a while i have used it before and it works. i do not exaggerate. i can spell just fine. there is nothing wrong with me if i dont wanna use grammar. all of you shut up. im trying to help someone out and you want to fucking start tell me whats wrong. if your gonna post on this thread then try and be fucking helpful, god.

[Trench Coat Crow]

Originally Posted by Steve_TPF

It's a shame you didn't spend as much time working on your english as you (apparently) did on your martial arts.

A sentence begins with a capital letter and ends with a period. (Also known as a full-stop.) Paragraph breaks are also helpful.
Start using proper grammar or be ridiculed on this site.



Given your inability to express yourself clearly there is no reason why anyone should listen.

i dont use martial arts because i dont like it. i use boxing and kick boxing. try typing in the dark like i have too. hard to type. the only time i can get on the computer is at night. I can't turn on a light because then i wake my little brother up, so dont suggest that and call me an idiot. which i am not. i happen to be a good student. not the best of course but not too bad. suck a math. but the rest im good at.

[D00M]

Don't Double Post

[Draven]

fighting is easy forget your fears of getting hurt you will. Fear is your bodies way of saying something maybe hurt or lost and pain is your body telling you something is hurt or lost. In the end its as simple as choosing to fight dispite the fear. Otherwise unless you just do it, you are a slave to fear and always will be.

Or as my fortune cookie once told me; Courage is not the lack of fear, it is facing fear.

[Steve_TPF]

Originally Posted by Trench Coat Crow

try typing in the dark like i have too. hard to type. the only time i can get on the computer is at night. I can't turn on a light because then i wake my little brother up, so dont suggest that and call me an idiot. which i am not. i happen to be a good student. not the best of course but not too bad. suck a math. but the rest im good at.

I am typing this in the dark, just to prove a point. If you can see the screen then you can correct your typing.

Originally Posted by Trench Coat Crow

i can spell just fine. there is nothing wrong with me if i dont wanna use grammar.

Oh, you can spell just fine can you? "Wanna" is not in the english language. And yes, there is something wrong with you if you don't want to use proper grammar. Intelligent people pride themselves on good communication.
We have enough quasi-literate teenagers on this forum already. We don't need any more. If you want to be taken seriously then stop posting solid blocks of rambling text.

Originally Posted by Trench Coat Crow

all of you shut up. im trying to help someone out and you want to fucking start tell me whats wrong. if your gonna post on this thread then try and be fucking helpful, god.

I've already posted, as have many people who can type better than you.
BTW, DOOM is correct. Don't double-post. Use the edit option if you have to.

[Darkshadow666]

Originally Posted by hamster dood

Hey hey hey, when I said an improvised weapon, I also said inconspicuous.

Does a shotgun behind the seat of the truck I drive to school count as inconspicuous?

[Steve_TPF]

I think it counts as a concealed weapon. 7-10 years perhaps?

[General Grim]

That and the V-tech shooting incident will probably make it worse.

Students + firearms + knee jerk Government + Concerned Mothers = I'll let you decide.

[Joslin]

my tactic is to turn it into hysterics. start smiling and look at him like you know you can beat him, laugh out loud. with any luck by now they'll be worried about your mental state and fuck off. if they don't wait for him to move. if he tries to hit you go low and skitz out, hit in weak spots, throat, low in the guts, nose eyes, temples. if you can get behind him grab hisshoulders and pull him backwards, slam your knee into his lower spine and he'll be hurt pretty bad. and be ready to run when you get the chance.



hope i was helpful.

[Black_Devil]

This is a stage that is experanced in youth, after you've been in verious violent and bloody situations, if you survive your fear will go away.

[Lone Gunman]

Originally Posted by stampede

yeah i have some bullies at my school.i was walking home on a street and to kids wanted my phone.but i ran and they started chasing me.but like after 3 seconds they gave up.i was outnumbered by 2 kids.

i always get nervous when i fight.i cant help it.i do martial arts.and even when i sparr i even get a little nervous.im afraid of getting my face all messed up and pounded
i have been trying to make my own knife out of scissors.but lately i have been carrying around a sharpened comb.

Personally I just don't think any amount of advice will help you... Some people are fighters and some aren't, it all boils down to your psychology.

Personally myself I really don't care if I'm outnumbered or if I will lose I never back down to assholes like that...

I say just fight back even if you know you will lose... If it's one thing I learned in jail is that the same rules apply to jail and school yards and that is to not make yourself a target... Keep to yourself, and if anyone tries to give you a hard time punch him as hard as you can on the chin hopefully getting a one punch knock out. Even if you lose the fight it is likely people won't mess with ya as much or at all because you will fight back, and then you simply become to much trouble for them and they will move on to someone else.

Running away at the first sign of getting into a fight puts a bulls eye on your back.

[Black_Devil]

Were I'm from you get labeled almost the mintute you hit about the age of six, your ethier a killer or a bicth.


And you don't wana be the bitch.

[Darkshadow666]

people are always bothering me for "excessive force" once the schools vice principal thought i was psychotic.

but it made for some fun times messing with him