-- Posted by Meta4ce on 1:50 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 I really, really dig this chick...but I want control...not absolute, crazy control, but CONTROL...she won't let me fuck long enough to make her have an orgasm (pussy's too tight, she ain't used to it) so how do I completely have her on it and take her sense of game (basically the memories of past experiences that fuck her up for other men, like me) away from her? I want her completely and fully...she SAYS I got her...but I want loyalty...and her to completely cut her ex off...I'm the new nigga, and I expect to be respected as such...I want the accessibility and control a boyfriend should have...she ain't that accessible, and I want a REAL ass relationship where she listens to what the fuck I say...I'm not one of those domineering niggas...I just want her to realize who the fuck the man is...yaknamsayin? -- Posted by Hergor on 2:49 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 control control, blahblah... acting without needing control and still knowing how to come along perfectly is what it's about. you say you want control. a real relationship is not about control. it's about trust. if you don't trust her don't go for a relationship with her... also relationship is a matter of taking and giving. it consists of the mutual trust. quote: she won't let me fuck long enough to make her have an orgasm well, she surely has her reasons. if you make her feel she can trust you, you'll gain her loyalty and then she'll probably open up to you. you need to give her the possibility to realize what you really feel for her. then she'll listen to you. but she'll never be 'at your command' unless you break her will, which makes you "one of those domineering niggas" you don't wanna be. trust her and then she'll hopefully trust you as well and give you what you want. if she doesn't do then, she's not worth it. quote: I just want her to realize who the fuck the man is this sounds pretty old-fashioned (not to mix up with 'old-school'), doesn't it? who is the man? why is he the 'man'? because he is the ruler and unites the powers in himself? c'mon, that's so stupid! in a real relationship no one controls each other. but one rather understands the other and respects her/him. take my word and don't try to achieve control over her. you'll just ruin your relatonship. (btw, a little teasing never hurts anyone but make sure it stays at that level...) -- Posted by chroniccrescent on 3:11 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 U sound like a total fucked up crazee white "nigga". Bet u is pale as paper! i bet u aint got a bitch, and this forum is all bout yo mamma punk. u cant control woman, never could, would or even in da future, realise! -- Posted by Ratty on 3:26 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 control freaks ofen have questions about their sexuality.................. -- Posted by jujubeans on 6:06 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 totally agree with hergor, ur talking like u want her to be ur sex slave or something like wut they had in Afghany. honestly, force really isnt the way to get a girl to open up, literally. i would know wouldnt i, being a girl and all. oh, and congrats to myself on my first post. -- Posted by brainwave on 7:47 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 this nothing to do with anarchy, but their right you cannot control a girl, if you trust and talk to her she will listen, it might not hapen over night, but it will happen, she sounds like she has alot of problems, so help her, and if your just trying to get in her, you should try someone else, because this girl sounds like she is testing you to see if your a real man the will trust and respect her.:cool: -- Posted by Jimmy Long on 2:14 am on Mar. 22, 2002 ill tell you from experience, being VERY sweet, listening to her, and well, loving her will get her to open up to you more than anything. my girl said she fell instantly in love with me the second time we went out somewhere, and ever since shes been putty in my hands, but im not the kind of guy to take advantage of that. she trusts me with her life, no shit, but thats b/c she knows i would never use her just to get laid. believe it or not, some women actually deserve respect. peace. -- Posted by death the horned god on 9:26 am on Mar. 22, 2002 theres only one way to take control of a bitch and you gotta be ruthless. you gotta beat em and threaten em. tell her if she dont put out you'll break her teeth.... sure she may threaten to call the police, but if she tries to pull any funny business you just gotta disfigure her, then we'll she whos laffing..... i dunno, thats how i would recommend settling a situation, but then again im no ladies man i prefer drunken one night stands. -- Posted by UnStAbLe on 11:17 am on Mar. 22, 2002 Chris rock said it best when he said "If you want your girl to do what you want and I mean anything.. even the nastiest sickest shti you can think of you hafto do it with authority, you hafto DEMAND it!"  like "Get on your knees and suck my dick.. now!" but if your a pussie and just beat around the bush you wont get anywhere... like "excuse me, um i was wondering, could you possibly, when your free and have the time, parton me, but could you... lick my balls?" If you ask it like that you arent going to get fucking anywhere. -- Posted by STONNER420 on 2:45 pm on Mar. 22, 2002 Tell them sad things that arent true make her feel sorry for you and then she should but it dont work on all girls!!! -- Posted by UnStAbLe on 7:57 pm on Mar. 22, 2002 also hit on other girls infront of her and shit like that, make her jeaoulos and htink she isnt putting out fast enough for your tastes so your looking into other chicks.... -- Posted by rishka on 11:26 pm on Mar. 22, 2002 alright you pack off arseholes . you all need a fucking bullet/ how did you think she got like that in the first place? by going out with and fucking people like yourselves!. for the GENTLEMEN in this thread , i apologise , this is not aimed at you. to me , it sounds like she's nervous because of the way shes been treated before. take it slow with her and DO NOT put pressure on her . otherwise you'll make her nervous or make her do something she might not want to. and that goes for sex too , take it slower. shes more likely to orgasm if you take it slower and speed up as you go . and for fucks sake , dont go straight into it , it fuckin hurts when the guy goes too fast. wake up to yourself or go and find urself a hooker. -- Posted by Hergor on 7:51 pm on Mar. 23, 2002 i just read this thread again and i must say we have a lot of weird stupidos among us. hey death the horned god, UnStAbLe and STONNER420 are you really such jerks? man, that's disgusting! you sound like 14 year old kiddies without consideration or like way too old drunk smelly macho-idiots with a lack of brains. are you still virgins or did you take over that attitude only recently? prepare to die single... Meta4ce, you do good in not giving a fuck to what those three say. believe me, you won't get far with that. -- Posted by irish man on 8:06 pm on Mar. 23, 2002 i bet she would start crying if she saw half of yer faces -- Posted by Roland49686 on 8:38 pm on Mar. 23, 2002 Listen up you sad assholes: The way to get a girl is this: a) find a woman of your tastes b) make sure she is not a moraless cunt like you are c) make sure she has a nice ass/boobs (optional) d) treat her with upmost respect and dignaty e) NEVER put her down f) Make her feel she needs to Get you, not you get her. And thats it. Women are people too and are somewhat like men. So don't fuck w/ their minds cuz they are probably on bombshock too and will put a pipebomb in ur car! -- Posted by ghettopimp70 on 1:02 am on Mar. 24, 2002 This thread should be somewhere else because counselling a relationship sure aint no crime ive heard of...and half you guys are sounding like doctor love while the other half sounds like fuckin ted bundy...ill tell you sick assholes something, this girl i knew was getting emotionally abused by her boyfriend and when people found out...half the dudes at my school wanted to be superman and save her right..Anyway by the end of the week the guy got jumped coming home by guys with baseball bats. I hope that happens to you -- Posted by confuzious on 1:40 am on Mar. 24, 2002 You need to find a girl that you don't want to break down. -- Posted by Meta4ce on 4:03 pm on Mar. 26, 2002 Quote: from ghettopimp70 on 1:02 am on Mar. 24, 2002 This thread should be somewhere else because counselling a relationship sure aint no crime ive heard of...and half you guys are sounding like doctor love while the other half sounds like fuckin ted bundy...ill tell you sick assholes something, this girl i knew was getting emotionally abused by her boyfriend and when people found out...half the dudes at my school wanted to be superman and save her right..Anyway by the end of the week the guy got jumped coming home by guys with baseball bats. I hope that happens to you this cat...lol man, y'all ain't understanding me... I'm trying to get some leverage in this...not really "who's the man" but I don't like being at a disadvantage by a female...everything's on her time and when she wants...I'm not a controlling cat, but she's the one who started this shit: SHE APPROACHED ME FIRST...and now I'm suspecting mad shit, so I wanna make her emotionally dependent on me and drop her to teach her about being greedy and accepting shit from her ex on the side because I'm not paid...she always says she doesn't care about money and shit, but if that was the case, she wouldn't be getting gifts from old boy...and a guy with sense doesn't do that for nothing... I realize I can have an advantage if I manipulate her into something, for the simple fact that her peoples are paid and she could get anything she wants...I want her to buy ME shit...and drive ME around...since I don't have the ability to do so, it's only right that she should...since she "had dudes that could do that for her"...fuck that...she needs to have a little change in attitude about men...I HATE MATERIALISTIC FEMALES. Oh, and the sex thing: SHE IS ALWAYS THE AGGRESSOR...I don't care about sex...that's easy to come by....I want better things...like money, and AIR FORCE ONES (shoes) and some timberland boots...or at least some assurance that I could trust her....that's all I want...it seems nowadays you gotta fuck with minds to get what you want AND need...this is bullshit... -- Posted by Creeper on 4:17 pm on Mar. 26, 2002 Quote: from Meta4ce on 1:50 pm on Mar. 21, 2002 she won't let me fuck long enough to make her have an orgasm (pussy's too tight, she ain't used to it) Is this somekind of hint on how well hung you are? -- Posted by Roland49686 on 4:30 pm on Mar. 26, 2002 Hm.. I guess.. kill everything else she could get attached too. Then approach her sexualy and pound the fuck out of her tight little cunt and make her loose as a goose. Then she will never forget her orgasmic ride w/ you and then u will live happily ever after. -- Posted by Creeper on 4:32 pm on Mar. 26, 2002 *cough -- Posted by Roland49686 on 4:36 pm on Mar. 26, 2002 WHAT? -- Posted by Sicopath on 4:15 am on Mar. 27, 2002 Damn this thread is whack... Chronic you sound like a paranoid, schizophrenic whatever... Girl's got her reasons, don't ask, don't assume and for gods sake, don't try and "break her down emotionally" 'cause that'll just make you an asshole. Just go with whatever you have, eventually you will figure out what you want and she'll figure out what she wants. Whatever it is chances are you'll both be happy. -- Posted by EzKilla on 7:44 pm on Mar. 27, 2002 First of all, cool it wit the "scitzo" remarks, cuz my mom's a Paraniod Shcizophrenic. Second of all, Ghetto is right, this SHOULD be somewhere else, and lastly, Roland must be one of the only logical people in dis, cuz the way you guys are talkin about mistreatin a girl like and shit ain't right. -- Posted by dancerstar on 11:45 pm on Mar. 27, 2002 this is EXACTLY what im talking about! i come here and y'all make fun of me for blahblahblahblah (y'all know what im sayin) but then here is one of those sexist pigs!!! anyways, you cant control a girl...what she thinks, what she wants, what she feels, what she needs. girls cant be controlled. now, whatever you said you wanted will take time. you should be willing to offer this becuz you said you really like her. oh, and just so you know, this chick will have you WHIPPED before you can even begin to dream of controlling her. guys are so SIMPLE. girls take thought, effort, work....stuff guys arent willing to give. -- Posted by largeidaccam on 1:01 am on Mar. 28, 2002 if you had bothered to look this had already been said. but noooo...you didnt read the posts above!!!! -- Posted by rageing redneck on 1:06 am on Mar. 28, 2002 what the fuck is all this? bombshock or fuckin loveline? -- Posted by kingpin on 8:49 am on Mar. 28, 2002 good one redneck, as for the rest of this thread *yawn*if your having trouble with your g/f just talk to her. -- Posted by NAILBUNNY on 12:00 pm on Mar. 28, 2002 ookk...Now that some of our lovely members have throughly demonstrated what idiots they are... If you want to be serious about gaining her trust, etc.  it will take some effort.  Every female generally needs five things;  respect, honesty, understanding, communication, (let her know how you feel where applicable, if something pisses you off, or if you like something, etc.) and most of all just make her feel loved.  When she needs to talk, just listen to her, even if it kills you (just sitting there and listening helps 34647680235%)  If she feels like you respect and love her, her fears about opening up will eventually dissapate, trust me i know where she's coming from.  Just dont give her a reason to suspect you aren't sincere.  Remember that men and women need different things from their mates.  As long as you let her know what you need, (trust, understanding, distance, etc) and tell her to let you know what she needs, you should both be able to relax and let things roll.  (just make sure she's worth the effort first) -- Posted by Roland49686 on 2:24 pm on Mar. 28, 2002 Well.. This thread is really fucked up. I just think *fart* that maybe we need to focus on things a little more anarchist like. Last night I saw cops *fart* and they came to a house where this guy was beatin his wife that was smokin crack in the bathroom. Then she fainted and the cop started to smoke the crackpipe. Anyways.. what was I trying to prove... hm.. I watched cops.. oh yeah! Love is gay. The guy beatin his wife should've just left her cuz shes always trippin on crack. Peace Roland *fart* -- Posted by guzzetti on 10:29 pm on Mar. 30, 2002 stick it in her ass from behind...just as she is having her orgasm scream her best friends name. TRY to hold on!!!! -- Posted by thadon41 on 12:26 am on Mar. 31, 2002 Mmmmm, see the way I see it is you have to play them at their own game. If they say the sky is pink, then dont argue even though she is wrong, just agree. If she says football stinks, dont say 'fuck no you bitch', just say like 'there we are then dear' ...or some shit. Soon enough she will think that you get on really well as friends as well as a couple and when you ask her to do stuff etc she will. Beleive me, its taken me 2years of experimenting with my girlfriend and now, she does anything I want. Its not controlling them, just like making them feel good about themselves so they think they trust and like you more than they actually do. When I first met my girl, she wouldnt party, she hadnt had sex, she didnt drink. And now? And now she is out to the clubs every saturday night, getting pissed with every spare £10 she gets and she is more than willing to have a 3threesome. Hell of a change I know, and the above^ is how I managed it. dont beleive me? -- haha then fuck you! -- Posted by kingpin on 12:36 am on Mar. 31, 2002 *yawn* i started to read *yawn* this thread and all of a sudden my eye lids are *yawn* gettin heavy i just think i'll go to *yawn* sleep for a while zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz huh wow i must have just dozed off for a minuite there, hey i think i just found a new cure for insomnia, hurray -- Posted by UnStAbLe on 3:35 pm on Mar. 31, 2002 For all the people that say this post shouldn't be in the anarchy section.... to me woman are anarchy... just wanted to put in my 2 cents about that lol. -- Posted by Creeper on 3:46 pm on Mar. 31, 2002 If you are lame enough to need to break a female down emotionally, Then if you ask me you need professional relationship help,  Just talk to the girl, You would be supprised. -- Posted by thadon41 on 7:13 pm on Mar. 31, 2002 Like I already said, you dont need to break em down (I too think this is gay!), or even control. Just a little social engineering, so to speak. thats all. -- Posted by ghettopimp70 on 7:33 pm on Mar. 31, 2002 Dancerstar thats bullshit that men are simple but a woman cant be controlled. If you think that a woman cant be controlled go down to wherever the whores hang out in your town and ask them about control. Theyll change your entire perspective on whether or not a woman can be controlled. -- Posted by dancerstar on 10:18 pm on Mar. 31, 2002 i dont call a whore a woman. -- Posted by MachiavellianSmith on 12:48 am on April 1, 2002 I was really disagreeing with u on the 'women cant be controled' thing (charles manson REALLY proved that wrong) but ur last post was a damn good answer. -- Posted by ghettopimp70 on 1:29 am on April 1, 2002 What would you call an abused wife? Even better what would you call a nun? (Edited by ghettopimp70 at 1:33 am on April 1, 2002)     http://www.bombshock.com